Sunday, June 9, 2024

Dating Raw: 3 Important Rules

 For readers looking to get serious with someone, or maybe just have a little fun, when the time to disclose sexual preferences for NO COMDOM comes, it can be quite a stressful ordeal, and can lead to rejection in some cases, and can be emotionally damaging in others. How should we communicate about it in order to make everyone feel respected and comfortable? How can we maintain what's important to us, while still wanting love and sex? I have a couple tips for this

1. BE UPFRONT: The best thing you can do is immediately disclose your distaste for the corruptive rubber. I tend to lead with that on my dating profile, or first messages. If they know immediately, they can then make the decision about whether they want to be a pawn of the liberal sexual health system, or whether they are open to having some good hard natural sex with fervour and fluid sharing. I tend to think that if they say they are not interested, I wouldn't have wanted them anyways 😂 

2. Be Assertive, not whiny: If you are in the situation where you are on a date and being grilled about your beliefs, don't resort to begging or bartering. You are degrading both yourself and the movement. Calmly and firmly explain why it is better to have sex this way, and they will either come to the natural conclusion themselves, or they will leave. If they go, fuck it, move on!

3. BE BRAVE: You may face situations where people say that they have diseases down there, and you have to either make the bold decision to stay with your beliefs and risk the consequences, or you can walk out. There is really no shame in walking out, sometimes it's best to not even say anything so you can leave on a good note. 

Always try to have the upper hand emotionally over your anxiety. You will make everyone else feel as though they are not experiencing true pleasure in sex ify you show them how ridiculous condom truly are. if you are enxious and uncertain youw ill look wimpy and weak, and not a viable mate. 
 

Nick Bendzsa (blog starter)

2 comments:

  1. this post really helped me... as A new member to the condom hating community, I was both enlightened, and liberated, by these rules. I'll share: Last Week, I went on an internet date with a woman who called herself a "free thinker." When it came down to doing the nasty, I was shockde to discover, those ideals did not hold true. I think, if I had not read these three important Rules, I would not have been able to steer mysekf out of that Snake den. Thank you Nick Bendzsa for simplifying a matter which ought never have become as complex as the liberal left has projected it to be.

    Antony Yonder

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  2. snake den... haha! yes, some tips can sure be useful in never getting into a situation in the first place you are uncomfortable about...

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