Through the course of my life of research, both practical and theological and theoretical even, I have come to understand that there is very little that distinguishes sex between married and non married people. In fact, sex can be base or enlightened in either case. Maybe I come off as radical in this sphere, but i believe a soul tie, soul unification can occur before and beyond sex, but that that pact is not truly sealed until physcial fluid bonding occurs. This information leads me to believe that marriage does not do much to change sex. If you are to get married on shaky or dishonest grounds, if the love does not permeate that marriage, why you are in an even worse position than if you simply did not marry at all. Sex will begin to drain the emotional currency you hold, just as a selfish partner can drain your monetary and life currencies. Before marriage, in couple you have not committed to an inauthentic path forever, and you have space for healing and leaving.. while i understand that this is the same in marriage, a divorce ultimately will ooze and bleed your potency in some regards.
I do believe thag the institution of marriage has some merit, many want babies after that and will leave their condom idols for a more natural genuine physical connection. I have not been married, no, so maybe i do not have the authority to speak in such a way, but ultimately i do not think that the ferocious andimalistic connections i share, those that activate my stimuli in such a base manner, are lessened for my lack of vows. Love is triumphant, and a human institution can not know all. I try my best i think anyways
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